Today is where your book begins
Last night, some close friends and I celebrated my engagement. No, I'm not actually engaged, but before I went out with nevergrowup, LemonCrush, Marnie and Dodds last night, we all had crowns on - one thing led to another - and apparently today is my wedding day. Good times.
I learned an important friendship lesson last night. While a lot of ya'll know that there is that one person on staff that I don't get along with, I just found out that our "issues" were larger than I'd even known. I'm totally over this situation and I really don't care about it anymore, but since I only learned of it last night, might as well vomit - I mean blog - it.
We lived together freshman year. We weren't BFF, but we got along very well. We lived together sophomore year and I still didn't have a problem with her until around February. It was actually when applications and interviews for RA were coming up. She, my fave roomie and I had a conversation about lottery and living for junior year. "Bellezza, if I get RA I'd want you and your roomie to live with me. If neither of us get the job, you can live with roomie and I'll live with Vicky." End of conversation. No, "If Bellezza gets RA" and no "If we both get RA". I was so hurt. And insulted. A little part of me still wishes that only one of us got the job, because I still truly feel like it would've been me and I wanted to prove to her that knowing AD wouldn't guarentee you a spot.
So, we both got the job. The roomie and Vicky decided to live with me. Summer came and went and I didn't realize that there were issues. Then when we came back for training in August, I could tell that she was obviously mad at me for some reason. We were never great friends, so I ignored it. But then she was actually pretty nasty to me. Right after classes finally started, I asked her why there was so much tension between us and she gave me a bogus reason about something that happened like a week prior. I knew it was bs because this had obviously been going on for longer than that.
Not as long as I thought. Not only was this girl anti-Bellezza, but apparently she ran a campaign against me and it started in May. It was her (spoken) goal to "make everyone of staff hate me". She started with two people who are now two of my dearest friends and it hurts to know that at some point there was a girl saying mean things about me to them - and to this day, I don't even know why she did it or what kinds of things she's said.
We still work together and will again next year (narrow it down for ya'll enough yet?). You would never know that we had any problems. I guess we're being mature about it? I've tried to make ammends, but whatever the reason is that she doesn't like me, they are strong enough for her to keep her distance. I've tried to go out of my way for her - helping with projects and supporting her programs and still nothing. I guess it's silly to hope that we could just move on from this mess, but that's just me.
I learned an important friendship lesson last night. While a lot of ya'll know that there is that one person on staff that I don't get along with, I just found out that our "issues" were larger than I'd even known. I'm totally over this situation and I really don't care about it anymore, but since I only learned of it last night, might as well vomit - I mean blog - it.
We lived together freshman year. We weren't BFF, but we got along very well. We lived together sophomore year and I still didn't have a problem with her until around February. It was actually when applications and interviews for RA were coming up. She, my fave roomie and I had a conversation about lottery and living for junior year. "Bellezza, if I get RA I'd want you and your roomie to live with me. If neither of us get the job, you can live with roomie and I'll live with Vicky." End of conversation. No, "If Bellezza gets RA" and no "If we both get RA". I was so hurt. And insulted. A little part of me still wishes that only one of us got the job, because I still truly feel like it would've been me and I wanted to prove to her that knowing AD wouldn't guarentee you a spot.
So, we both got the job. The roomie and Vicky decided to live with me. Summer came and went and I didn't realize that there were issues. Then when we came back for training in August, I could tell that she was obviously mad at me for some reason. We were never great friends, so I ignored it. But then she was actually pretty nasty to me. Right after classes finally started, I asked her why there was so much tension between us and she gave me a bogus reason about something that happened like a week prior. I knew it was bs because this had obviously been going on for longer than that.
Not as long as I thought. Not only was this girl anti-Bellezza, but apparently she ran a campaign against me and it started in May. It was her (spoken) goal to "make everyone of staff hate me". She started with two people who are now two of my dearest friends and it hurts to know that at some point there was a girl saying mean things about me to them - and to this day, I don't even know why she did it or what kinds of things she's said.
We still work together and will again next year (narrow it down for ya'll enough yet?). You would never know that we had any problems. I guess we're being mature about it? I've tried to make ammends, but whatever the reason is that she doesn't like me, they are strong enough for her to keep her distance. I've tried to go out of my way for her - helping with projects and supporting her programs and still nothing. I guess it's silly to hope that we could just move on from this mess, but that's just me.
3 Comments:
Darling, don't even worry about it cause you're a good person, and that always prevails.
and besides, we've all got your back. imagine her putting a damper on your engagement party. bitch.
i heart ya'll
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